Relationships can be tricky and as time passes by, things just seem to fizzle out. Date nights become less frequent, he is often busy and doesn’t pay much attention to you. Well, here is something that may help you out. Here are 8 ways to attract your boyfriend and rekindle your romance.
#1. Look good for him
You don’t have to be a model and put lots of makeup to look great. But surprise him by putting on a really nice dress and making an effort to look good when going out with him. Remind him how sexy you can look if you want.
#2. Change something visible
After a while, he may start to just shrug things off and not pay attention to you as much as you want. You could grab his attention with a noticeable change like a new hairstyle or hair color. You could also go away from your usual wardrobe and go for a new sexier look.
#3. Ask him out
Sure he is your boyfriend but that doesn’t mean you can’t take him out once in a while. Men love it when women take the lead, so do it. Take him out for a movie, dinner or whatever it is he has been wanting to do for some time. Tell him how much you love him when you kiss him goodnight.
#4. Take interest in his interests
Be it sports, bikes, cars, books or movies, he must be into something. Make an effort to be interested in what he likes. Watch a match together or maybe his favourite movie. Not only will he love you for it but you also get to learn something new.
#5. Give him some space
There is a difference between being attached and being needy. It’s great to share your life with somebody you are in love with but all this dependence can take a turn if one partner becomes too needy. If you feel you are being too possessive or needy, talk to him and take a step back. Give him some room to breathe and show him that you too are capable of handling your life perfectly.
#6. Be supportive
Make sure he is able to lean on your shoulder when he is down. It’s not always about your day, he has bad days too. Be present when he needs an ear and shoulder. Be supportive of his choices and massage his ego every once in a while.
#7. Revive old scents
You may have settled in a relationship by now and everyday things may become routines. How about taking a trip back the memory lane and not just with pictures. Try using the similar scents when you two first started dating like your expensive perfume you would only wear for date nights and your old shampoo.
#8. Have a life of your own
And while you are trying to get your boyfriend’s attention, don’t get too absorbed in his life. Focus on your life too. Hang out with friends and family, focus on your work, go shopping. Let him know that you have a life of your own.